Are you ANXIOUS about a situation?
Do you wish others would behave with more LOVE towards you?
When people behave in certain ways you don’t particularly like, it can be for a number of reasons:
- Your energy is attracting the behaviour.
- There is a lesson for you to learn order to move forward.
- A change in your life is required.
The way to deal with this situation in any of these cases, is to move the focus away from the ‘other’ person or people and focus on YOU.
The present focus is on the lack you have. It’s on the shortage of love driven behaviour.
Often, it’s easy to wish or expect someone else to change. This is an unrealistic expectation which can lead to the feeling of unhappiness.
It’s time to question what you can do to make things better for yourself.
Think about the specific situation and ask yourself these 3 questions:
- What can I be more of right now?
- What can I do more of right now?
- What can I give more of right now?
Some thoughts to consider around the questions….
What can I be more of right now?
- Could it be that you need to exercise more patience with yourself in this situation?
What can I do more of right now?
- Patience with the other people involved?
- Take time to meditate to hear the voice of my heart for direction?
- How can you support the other person more?
What can I give more of right now?
- Are you giving enough time to the person or situation?
- In what ways, can you give love to the person or situation?
If you want to attract a good friend, you have to be a good friend.
If you want things to change, you have to do something to make the change for yourself.
If you want to attract a life partner to love you, you have to give love.
By focusing on the lack in your life, you attract more of the same.
By changing your mind-set to positive ways in which you can make a difference, you will begin to attract more of the same.
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Believe you can!
Change and Confidence Coach